My pen name is “Victor J Adamson,” My first book is titled, “That Kind Can Never Change! Can They…?”
Are we born gay? What role does abuse, environment and circumstance play? I explored understanding and overcoming homosexuality. Does God love us while we are in the struggle? Twenty four years later, I’m now husband and father with five children and five grandchildren. I talk about what the “change” really is and how it is possible. I dispel the gay myth of “once gay, always gay.”
Today I minister around the globe about life as a “New Creature” in Jesus Christ. One of my favorite things to say is “God is mighty to save the “whosevers”, from “whatsoever”, even to the uttermost.”
I lived defined as “gay” for over twenty years. I was Same-Sex Attracted from the time I was six years old. I prayed for right feelings and attractions, and I also prayed to die. There was no one I could talk to. Eventually, I turned my back on God and busted the doors of the gay culture wide open. I lived my life without any control. Proverbs 27:7 says the full soul loathes honeycomb; but to the hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet. My sisters were relentless in their prayers for me. Jesus pursued me and I opened my heart to His tender, loving call. He accepted me and promised to walk with me on this journey. Joel 2:25 promises us that Jesus will restore the years that the locust hath eaten. Today I live to share of what is possible through Jesus.
I began experimenting sexually with the same-sex when I was only seven with a friend who had been sexually abused. This lead into other sexual sins, compounding after exposure to pornography. I ‘came out’ as bisexual at age 15, and by 21, I was floundering in multiple sexual addictions. I sank into a dark place; physically, mentally, and spiritually. Sensing my need of change, I began a quest for knowledge, developing an abstract spiritual perspective inspired by spiritualism and the occult. Yet, I never found the peace or contentment I longed for.
Around age 24, I reasoned that I must be lesbian and determined to find a woman to commit to. Just then, the Lord cocooned me in a place where I could learn who He really is. He began to enlighten my confusion about life, spirituality, and sexuality. He broke the chains of my sexual addictions and proved to me that, through Christ, all things are possible.
Wayne has taken retirement from active involvement with ‘Coming Out’ Ministries. Wayne has stated that “…it has been an honor and privilege to share God’s love in truth message” through this ministry. ‘Coming Out’ Ministries supports Wayne’s decision to retire and we wish him the very best in his future endeavors.